“The more that you avoid, and the more that you’re on the defense, the more your identity moves into victim mode, and so your identity doesn’t integrate any weapons. I want you to perceive this in a different way and…

“The more that you avoid, and the more that you’re on the defense, the more your identity moves into victim mode, and so your identity doesn’t integrate any weapons. I want you to perceive this in a different way and…